fanny-pad asked: thank you about the advice thing, im not bothered about it been off annon, i do advice myself on Formspring but i needed someone elses advice this time, well me and my boyfriend have had a little argument and he's not talking to me and we haven't had much conversation in 3 days and im just wondering, what should i do?
You need to talk things out, simple, get him and talk to him, tell him you need to sort it out, find out what caused it, and what you can do to make things better. :)
Anonymous asked: I'm never invited to anything D:
You just need to know more people through the people you know already, then you’ll start getting invited to things :)
Anonymous asked: oh and they broke up once well she did, and she said that she didnt want a boyfriend the next day she asked him out, and he gave her a chance even though she said she didnt want a boyfriend. what a fake person. but really thanks for your advice it is really helpful(:
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Anonymous asked: I have this friend. She has anxiety, she has an eating disorder, she's depressed, she hates herself, she cuts herself, and she hides it all with a smile on her face and a laugh on her lips. How do I help her? If I lose her, I don't know what the fuck I will do and it scares the hell out of me.
it’s the hardest thing to help someone who can hide things so easily on the outside, just be there for her and try and make life as good as possible for her <3
Anonymous asked: 2 weeks into school I met this kid. He's been giving me hugs and talked to me since then. He met my friend and started to completely ignore me. A couple days ago, he gave me a hug in front of her and completely ignored her. Same today. What the fuck is he trying to say?!
That he’s a player, that’s what. Steer clear before you get hurt <3
something i’d love is maybe some feedback of some sort, maybe like a reply you think is helpful or something, would make me feel like i’m not doing all this for nothing :-)
stahlyyy asked: I don't need help per say, I think I'm doing the right thing with her. I just need to tell someone that doesn't know either of us sometimes. So... thanks again.
It’s absolutely fine, that’s really sweet and it’s good to vent sometimes!
stahlyyy asked: I get it back every now and again to add to it, but I'm hoping she'll take it with her. She has had some horrible times here I've just wanted to even it all out. And yet, even though I've had... 14 months now to get used to the idea, I still well up at the thought of her not being round the corner. I take her for granted, I know it but I can't change it. Sometimes I want to be alone and she can't see that, its infuriating sometimes, I just still can't fathom that there's someone that needs me...
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stahlyyy asked: I only just noticed that you replied to mine a couple of weeks ago. So I just wanted to say thanks. We're not staying together when she moves away, it wouldn't really be possible. But, since we got together, I've felt like I should make her as happy as I can before she goes, so all the memories of this place aren't so awful? I've just wanted us to be able to have some happy memories, and for her birthday, I gave her a book with loads of stuff about us in, with items from stuff we've done in...
I’ll reply on the next !
Anonymous asked: yes the do, the girl knows i am really upset perfectly and the guy i like has noticed past the time nobody really told him.
Well she seems a little bit horrible doesn’t she. It’s difficult hun but you can’t break them up, if she’s as selfish as that it probably won’t last long, wait for him :) <3
